A BDSM ToyBox

artworks-000014583234-7zgi8q-cropThe interest in BDSM has skyrocketed since the release of Shades Of Grey. What once was such a taboo topic to talk about is now becoming mainstream. If you and your partner are curious to dabble into the world of BDSM then here are some toys that belong in the toybox.
BDSM can come in many different forms and styles, from acts of spanking or being spanked, clamping the nipples, wearing blindfolds, being gagged, or being restrained. Role playing is also a big part of BDSM where you have a dominant partner and a submissive partner. The submissive partner must yield to the orders of the master. Before embarking on your journey to BDSM it is important to only do it with someone you fully trust and it is crucial to set clear boundaries and understand the rules of BDSM to ensure safe play for both partners.

Once the boundaries, expectations and safewords are set, you can dig into your toybox and play with a few of these toys:

Handcuffs and/or Ankle Cuffs: Used by the dominate partner to restrain the submissive partner so that they have complete control over them. This feeling of helplessness can be quite a turn-on for many, likewise, having complete control over the sexual arousal of your lover can also be fun.

Restraints and Restraint Systems: Start off by using simple rope or even silk scarves. Once you are both comfortable with restraining you can take it up a notch by buying a restraint system.

Paddles and Whips: It is important to start out with a light paddle and then increase the intensity as you both get comfortable. It is important to only spank on the fleshy buttocks or top of thighs – as spanking in other areas can actually cause internal damage. Do your research before spanking.

Clamps: Nipple clamps don’t just look hot, they are also great for stimulating the nipples, hands free. For the more creative they can also be used on other parts of the body.

Ball Gags: Bring your partner to your mercy by attaching a ball gag, it is simply a ball attached to tethers that is fastened around the neck and keeps your “prisoner” from escaping.

Cock Cages: Dominate your partner by stopping him from entering you by caging up his pride and joy. The cock cage encloses the penis and prohibits sexual intercourse.

Adding to Your Toy Box: These are just a few of the fun toys that are available, as you both progress and become more confident in the world of BDSM you can find an endless selection of toys to explore your bondage and fetish play – and really up your pleasure dial. Visit http://www.privatedesires.com.au for a great selection of BDSM and fetish toys.

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